Terrance Hawthorne, a Tampa man, has been named the 2023 Caregiver of the Year by the National Association of Area Agencies on Aging. Hawthorne was recognized for his devotion to caring for his wife, Alveria, after she suffered a brain aneurysm in 2017.
The aneurysm ruptured while Alveria was at home, and she was rushed to the hospital in critical condition. She spent several weeks in a coma, and when she finally woke up, she was paralyzed on her left side and had lost her ability to speak.
“A day for me, man it can be sad, it could be happy, it could be up, it could be down. But I continue to push forward because I know that I have to stay strong for her through this whole process,” Hawthorne shared with Fox 13.
Terrance quit his job to become Alveria’s full-time caregiver. He helps her with everything from bathing and dressing to eating and getting around. He also takes her to all of her doctor’s appointments and therapy sessions.
Video of the Week – From Beggar to Boss
Hawthorne says that caring for Alveria is the most challenging thing he has ever done, but he also says that it is the most rewarding. He loves his wife deeply, and he is committed to helping her recover to the best of her ability.
The Video That Moved the Internet
He recently shared a video on Instagram that touched the hearts of millions of viewers. In the video, he expresses his love and care for his wife, who has a disability.
In the video, Hawthorne’s wife asks him, “Do you want me?” as she seems to doubt herself and her worthiness because of her condition. Hawthorne responds with affection and reassurance, stating, “Yeah, I want you, I love you.” He tells her that he loves her and wants her, and that she will always be his baby. He also kisses her and hugs her tenderly.
The video went viral and received a lot of positive feedback from fans who praised Hawthorne for his devotion and loyalty to his wife. They also admired the power and beauty of Black love. Some fans shared their own stories of dealing with disabilities or depression, and how they appreciated Hawthorne’s example of unconditional love.
Response from users
“When he said that part of his vows- “In sickness and in health”, this brother meant every word!”
“This is what a REAL MAN Looks like that actually meant every word he said when they both said I DO!!! When you make those vows to each other and to God that is when you choose!!! So, men/women if you don’t mean it and can’t handle change like this, don’t say I DO! I commend you sir for taking care of your business and loving your wife unconditionally!! Keep pushing God bless you two!❤️💜”
“Lord….🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️fighting the tears now…..saw my father do the same for my mom when she was battling cancer. It’s good to see other men doing the same for their wives. I salute you brother”
“I cried just to hear her ask. I suffer with chronic depression and my children and grandchildren don’t want to be bothered with me. So, I understand know matter what a person goes through they don’t want to be a burden because of the thoughts that are already raging in our minds. It’s a battle within itself, We just want to be loved and needed even when we can’t meet the needs,”
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Hawthorne’s Gratitude and Message
Hawthorne thanked his fans for their prayers and support. He said that he and his wife appreciate their followers and that they inspire each other. He also said that he does not take his marriage for granted, and that he is humbled and grateful for his wife.
Hawthorne is a love and relationship coach who helps people improve their communication and connection with their partners. He also speaks about overcoming challenges, finding purpose, and living a fulfilling life. He is a true example of the power of Black love in all its glory.
How Hawthorne’s story can inspire other caregivers
Hawthorne’s story is an inspiration to all caregivers. He is a true example of what it means to love someone “in sickness and in health.”
Here are a few ways that Hawthorne’s story can inspire other caregivers:
- Never give up. Alveria’s recovery has been long and difficult, but Hawthorne has never given up on her. He is committed to helping her reach her full potential.
- Ask for help. Caregiving can be a daunting task, but it is important to remember that you are not alone. There are many resources available to help caregivers, including support groups, respite care, and financial assistance.
- Take care of yourself. It is important to remember that you cannot care for others if you are not caring for yourself. Make sure to get enough sleep, eat healthy foods, and exercise regularly.
What to do if you are a caregiver
If you are a caregiver, there are a few things you can do to make your life easier and more manageable:
- Educate yourself about the condition your loved one is facing. The more you know about their condition, the better equipped you will be to care for them.
- Create a care plan. This will help you to organize your caregiving tasks and ensure that your loved one is receiving the care they need.
- Take breaks. Caregiving can be exhausting, so it is important to take breaks when you need them. Ask friends or family members to help you out, or take some time for yourself to relax and recharge.
Source: www.fox13news.com and www.madamenoire.com
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