Teenager’s Journey from Prison to College Shows That Anything Is Possible

With all this happening, it was hard for Aiden to focus on GSAT, which he failed on his initial attempt. Subsequently, he was placed at an all-age school in the parish, where he tried to cope as best as he could. “I was very quiet at school and, to make matters worse, I had a very small frame, so it was hard for me to defend myself. As a result, I was bullied a lot, sometimes for my space in a line or for my lunch money. I didn’t like the confrontation, so I would usually submit to their [the bullies’] requests,” Aiden revealed to kareemsquest.com. For this reason, he formed very few friendships, but there was one, with a relative, which had developed several years prior, when Aiden was nine years old.

THE WORLD STOPPED

The boys would often play games together and have their usual juvenile squabbles, after which they would return to play another day. However, one day,  they got into a heated argument over a football match and it became physical. “It’s such a hard memory to revisit, because everything escalated so fast. I still feel so uncomfortable talking about it,” he disclosed. As they began to tussle, Aiden took up an object and struck his relative in the neck. It was as if all of his caged anger was unleashed, as the impact killed his relative. “As I looked at his body on the ground, I didn’t think he was dead, but I knew something was wrong, so I ran to tell my mother. By the time I went back to him, his body was lifeless,” Aiden recalled to kareemsquest.com.

Soon after, the police came and handcuffed the 13-year-old, who sat crying in the back seat of the patrol car, while heading to the station. That night, he slept, after hours of crying, in a cell with five adult males.

“When I was in the jail cell, they kept trying to console me, but I was dumbfounded by my actions. I kept crying so much that at one point, I was breathless,” the reflective Aiden said.

From that point onwards, he had to contend with his new reality of being a captive for a crime of which he was guilty. This overwhelming experience caused him to nosedive into a state of depression, especially during his court proceedings.

“The first place I was carried to was the Family Court for an assessment, where my legal-aid lawyer told me to plead guilty to my charges so I could start my sentence early to cut down my time in an adult prison. Even so, there were still some technicalities that were delaying the trial date.”

During this time, Aiden was temporarily placed at a juvenile remand centre, where he enrolled in the academic programme as a means to combat his depression. He would routinely wake up with his mind focused on making something better of himself. This ultimately helped him to become the most outstanding performer at the institution.

Despite this achievement, his day of reckoning came one year and three months after being charged with manslaughter. The judge pronounced a seven-year sentence, with three years to be served in prison at a juvenile correctional facility until he became 18 years. At that point, he was to be transferred to an adult prison where he would serve the remaining four years of his sentence.

BEHIND THE PRISON WALLS

Much like the biblical chronicles of Joseph the Dreamer, who went to prison at the behest of Potiphar’s wife, Aiden was determined to become a better person through the experience.

“God spoke with me relentlessly; had it not been for Him, it would have been impossible for me to survive. I had to find a way to speak positive words over my life every morning,” he confessed to kareemsquest.com. 

He continued, “The boys at the facility were much bigger and tougher than my other location, and with my small frame and anti-social ways, I had to be wise about my survival, because I knew I was going to be a target”.

To avoid potential conflicts he quickly continued where he had left off, by enrolling into several trade courses. He told kareemsquest.com that his weekly classes consisted of five subjects: arts and tailoring, barbering, mixology in non-alcoholic beverages, and plumbing.

This discipline and drive towards self-improvement did not go unnoticed by the superintendents assigned to the facility, and they encouraged him to stay on his productive path.

“The staff at the correctional centre and persons in the welfare department always encouraged me, once they saw how serious I was at becoming a better person.”

He was also quick to state the support he got from others. “I think the judge saw something in me, because she sent grocery and hygiene stuff for me monthly, and this was very encouraging because, at the time, so many persons had turned their backs on me.”

With the passing of each year, Aiden added to his decorated résumé and his hard work was incentivised by his coronation as head boy of the facility.

“At 17 years old, I sat five CSEC subjects, and I was really proud of myself, because there were guys who were provoking me to do bad things and get myself in trouble, but I resisted the temptation,” affirmed Aiden.

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This milestone also signaled  the daunting reality that his time at the centre was coming to an end, with less than three months before his 18th birthday in August. This meant he would be shipped to an adult prison, to serve his remaining four years, something he dreaded. 

Hoping for a pardon

“At this point, the superintendent told me I should write a letter to the Governor General to see if my case could be reviewed. I stayed up countless nights writing many drafts that were vetted by the various authorities. After several attempts, I had properly expressed myself and my grammar was correct, so I sent it to him and he forwarded it to the Privy Council.”

With time working against him and only weeks left before his impending departure to an adult prison, the Governor General, Sir Patrick Allen paid him a visit in August. This occurred days after he had received his CSEC results, which he passed four of the five subjects he attempted. 

“I was so nervous during the interview with the Governor General. When he saw my accomplishments he said it would be counterproductive to send me to an adult prison and he was convinced I was a changed person. After which he granted me my remittance, at this point tears started to fill my eyes. A week and a couple days after, I was let out one day before my 18th birthday,” Aiden Recounted to kareemsquest.com.

No longer an introvert, Aiden now stands at 5’10” and bears very little resemblance to his past, which is also evident in his ability to express himself eloquently. “At almost every special event I go back to the Juvenile Center and give motivational speeches to the boys at the facility to let them know that all is not lost and they must fight to keep their minds in a positive place,” said Aiden 

With no intention of becoming a recidivist, Aiden has fixed his eyes on the pantheon of academic scholars, as he aims to move on to a bachelor’s degree after completing his diploma in Business Administration.  

“I am nearing the end of my studies, and I am both eager and concerned. Financially it’s really difficult on me right now, as some days I have to go to college without lunch money. But I’m not letting it deter me because I have done so much against the odds,” declared Aiden. 

Update on his progress

The Ah Loaf of Bread charity was able to organise a meeting with the Governor General’s wife, Lady Allen, who was impressed with Aiden’s advancements and decided to provide further assistance to him. She donated a laptop and school supplies and with the help of the charity, Aiden was able to finish his studies. To assist others like Aiden, check the information below.

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